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The first article below is from the Daily Mail
of October 13th, 1997. Two separate studies and research work, one in the United Kingdom
and one in the United States. From within the beehives of organised assaults on the
family, by the criminals who are in control in pseudo-democracies, the 'serfs' and the
indoctrinated are spoon fed with the results of studies about the after effects of the
phenomena that the creators arrange as masters of ceremonies.
First article. The image below is of page 21
from the Daily Mail of 13th October 1997.
Second article. We will be publishing a relevant
article from another Daily Mail issue. We will thus afford the readers the opportunity to
apply their own understanding and common sense, through consideration of the facts these
pages are revealing to the citizens of the world.
Third article. We will publish and or point to many
other articles, mostly half baked potatoes. All by and from the lap-dogs you can read of
and about at: http://www.uk-human-rights.org/media.htm#words
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From research in the United Kingdom we
are told:
Boy victims of divorce
Sons missing a father figure turn to crime
By STEVE DOUGHTY Social Affairs
Correspondent
FAMILY break-up can turn teenage boys towards
aggression, delinquency and crime, a study has found.
Boys react badly to the way their mother steps into their father's shoes
after a divorce and become tougher, say four leading academics.
While teenage girls suffer quietly from the separation of their parents,
the aggressive behaviour of boys tends to escalate, they found.
The report for the British Psychological Society adds to the fast-growing
evidence of the damage done to children by divorce and parental break-up.
It is also likely to displease feminists because of its finding that
fathers and mothers fulfil different roles, and that teenagers are affected when those
roles change.
The research, published in the British Journal of Developmental
Psychology was carried out among 400 children at three comprehensive schools in South
Wales to `explore the impact of parental separation on conflict patterns between parents
and their adolescent children'.
One or the academics behind the report, Dr Terry Honess, said:
`Adolescents generally report feeling closer to their mother and are more likely to turn
to her for support. `Mothers are generally an authority figure softened by intimacy and
moments of equality. They are seen as more compromising in the way they handle
disagreements.'
Dr Honess said that, after a split with the father, mothers take on some
of the authoritarian aspects of fathers' usual behaviour as they try to run a family by
themselves. Faced with a difficult teenage son, mothers become tougher. `Six to 12 months
after separation there is increased aggression between mothers and sons as boys flex their
muscles more,' he said. `She tells him what to do and he reacts against this.'
The report concluded that girls were likely to experience the impact of
separation in terms of personal frustration.
Boys were more likely to show escalating aggressive behaviour.
It said: `Parent-adolescent conflict styles and outcomes will show
differences between divorcing and non-divorcing families. `Mothers living with a partner
were reported as more aggressive than mothers from non-divorcing families, and adolescents
living with mother alone reported more frustration and aggression outcomes.
`Boys without their father resident reported the lowest levels of
compromise with both mothers and fathers - consistent with other research suggesting that
boys' accommodation to parental separation is more problematic.'
And from research in the USA we are
told:
THE LOOK THAT SAYS
YOUR MARRIAGE IS DOOMED
By BARBARA DAVIES
MARRIAGES destined to fail can be spotted by watching
the way a couple look at each other.
Husbands and wives who roll their eyes at each other or grimace are
likely to end up in the divorce courts, according to an American study.
The expressions indicate contempt, one of four signs which experts say
mean that a marriage is doomed.
Criticism, defensiveness and stonewalling are also revealed through body
language, said Dr John Gottman, a psychology professor at Washington University.
Dr Gottman claims to have perfected a 15-minute system to predict whether
a marriage will last. After studying more than 650 couples, for up to 14 years, he
believes his system could prevent unsuitable couples from walking down the aisle.
His study is being used by the U.S. government to reduce the nation's
high divorce rate.
In states such as Louisiana, some couples are forced to undergo counselling before being
issued with a marriage licence.
Dr Gottman believes his test could be used in such counselling,
`Pre-marriage analysis would be a very good idea,' he said.
While contempt is the most easily recognisable of the four gestures, Dr
Gottman can pinpoint the other three within minutes simply by watching a couple interact.
Criticism is displayed as a form of nagging which attacks the spouse's
character rather than any specific deed.
Defensiveness, according to Dr Gottman, manifests itself as whining, or responding to a
complaint with another complaint.
Stonewalling is indicated through emotional withdrawal from a
relationship.
`You end up with a vicious circle as the husband withdraws and the wife nags even more,'
said Dr Gottman.
`It often looks as if it is the woman who starts it, but it's like the
chicken and egg - it is hard to tell which started it.'
Despite his faith in his study, Dr Gottman admits it is harder to predict which marriages
will last because fighting between couples reveals nothing about the healthiness of the
relationship.
According to Dr Gottman, men's behaviour counts for most in lasting
modern relationships.
`Women no longer have to stay in crummy marriages, so men have to work out how to respond
and behave to maintain their marriages.'
The key, according to Dr Gottman, lies in a man's ability to see his
wife's point of view.
Ó Daily Mall, Monday, October
13, 1997
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